Today in church the sermon was about how powerful ideas are. Ideas shape people, relationships, communities, countries and the world. God reconciled the world to Himself...God declared dignity to ALL...and as the sermon stated today "reconciliation and forgiveness should characterize our relationships". Reconciliation and forgiveness should be the powerful idea we embrace.
After reflecting on both my son's party and the sermon today I couldn't agree more that "ideas are powerful...watch what you embrace". My son had such a strong idea about how "his day" should go. He embraced the idea that his Batman themed party should start exactly when he wanted it to, he should get presents, eat cupcakes and bang candy out of a pinata. This idea shaped his attitude and his actions.
Upon all this reflecting...I was reminded of one HUGE flaw of mine. I don't forgive quickly. I hold on to the idea that people should do or act a certain way and when they don't I am upset...they owe me for my perceived wrong doing...and I wait for them to make it right. But you know what? It just continues to hurt me and my family...and it makes me not a good example.
What ideas do you embrace? Do you truly embrace forgiveness (i.e. really believe that people no longer owe you)? Forgiveness is the most powerful idea. How I embrace that (or not embrace) that teaches my family how to do that or not do that. To not count others trespasses means just that...forgive...embrace the powerful idea of forgiveness. So I realized today that I act like my 4 year old son...wow... embarrassing! At least he has an excuse...what's mine?
I like to think I am a good example of kindness and goodness and forgiveness to my kids. But the reality is...I fail a lot. So I will work harder to forgive...to not count trespasses but reconcile and forgive because that's what God did for me and that's what He is asking I do for others. That's His powerful idea.
So back to my son's 4th birthday...luckily kids are forgiving (however lofty their ideas are and however firmly they embrace them). My son has already forgotten that the party didn't start on time and that I almost forgot to sing "Happy Birthday". He told me it was his "best day ever". My prayer tonight will be that I forgive and forget like my son (and like God did for me). That I embrace the most powerful idea of all...FORGIVENESS...and that I let my soul embrace the powerful ideas of God and not the petty ideas I hold so each day can be my "best day ever".